CBT stands for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy: a type of talking therapy that helps you manage your problems by changing how you think and act.
Using CBT methods and tools, I can help you to:
- learn to recognise unhelpful thinking patterns
- recognise how your thoughts, feelings and behaviour are connected
- face your fears, not avoid them
- learn ways to calm your mind and relax your body
- use problem-solving skills to cope with difficult situations
- gain a deeper understanding of how you think about yourself, the world and other people
- learning to develop a greater sense of confidence in your own abilities
Unlike other talking treatments, CBT focuses on the problems and difficulties you have in the here-and-now, rather than issues from your past. This doesn't mean we don't acknowledge your past, or any major life events: we need to understand them to explain why you might be having problems now. CBT helps you develop practical skills to improve your psychological on a day-to-day basis.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has a strong evidence base for a wide range of mental health problems in both adults, children and young people. This research has been carefully reviewed by the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE), who provide independent, evidence-based recommendations for the NHS on the most effective treatment options for ill health.
CBT can be effective for many common mental health problems including:
CBT is effective for a wide array of other problems and difficult emotions including:
If you're in any doubt about the exact nature of your problems, please don't worry! Sometimes, we just know that something isn't right and we're not quite ourselves. My role is to help you make sense of it all. Just book a free telephone consultation with me, and I can ask some questions to better understand the problems you're dealing with. We can also talk about what it is that you want to change or improve. Simply send me a message, and I'll get back in touch with you to find a good day and time to call.
This is a helpful video from Mind, the mental health charity. It tells you a bit more about CBT and helps you think about whether it might be a useful therapy for you.
Our first few appointments will focus on gaining a better understanding of your difficulties. I will ask you about your current problems, as well as other areas of your life, such as your family and work, social network and any relevant health issues. You will have been sent some forms and questionnaires prior to our first appointment: please try to complete these and bring them with you.
We will specifically look at your thoughts and beliefs and how they affect your day-to-day life. We will jointly explore and clarify your goals and what you hope to achieve from therapy.
The assessment session is structured and although you will do most of the talking, the session is therapist-lead, and follows a format, to ensure we cover all of the important areas. This session lasts 50 minutes, but we may require anywhere from 1-3 sessions, depending on the problem.
By the end of your assessment sessions, we will have jointly devised your 'formulation': a shared understanding of your presenting problem: why it might have started, and what keeps it going now.
Your regular CBT session is likely to include:
There is a lot of information to take in and process during a therapy session, and you will not be expected to remember everything we discuss.
I encourage my clients to come equipped with a notebook, so that you can jot down the main discussion points and the “homework” or self-help exercises you will carry out for the next session. This will allow you to reflect on our sessions after you’ve left, and it will allow you to move forward with some of the key points discussed.
I may also give you handouts, or other useful information. All materials can also be provided electronically: whatever you prefer.
Even with the best will in the world, CBT is not a quick fix nor magic cure. That said, I’ve worked with clients who have had ‘lightbulb moments’ when something just seems to drop into place. Any kind of therapy is a process that will take time, a commitment to change, and practice. CBT is not a passive therapy and whilst you may start to feel better for just having time and space to talk and share your feelings, the real change starts to happen when you commit to the process including:
We will regularly review your progress, and I will actively encourage your feedback about how you think it is going. If CBT is not helping, or I feel that another kind of therapy would be more helpful, I will be open and honest about this.
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